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Common reactions during EMDR-PEP and how to handle them
Prepare yourself for what you might experience during your self-EMDR session. Knowing what to expect can help you stay calm and in control.
What to Expect During a Self-EMDR Session
- Emotional shifts - feelings may change quickly or come up unexpectedly.
- Physical sensations - tension, warmth, tingling, or feeling light-headed.
- New thoughts or memories - connections might surface that you hadn’t noticed before.
- Temporary increase in distress - emotions might get stronger before they ease.
- Periods of numbness or blankness - feeling “stuck” or disconnected can happen too.
Common Emotional Reactions and How to Handle Them
Feeling Overwhelmed or Anxious- Pause and ground yourself - take deep breaths or use a grounding technique.
- Remind yourself you are safe - the memory is in the past, you are in control now.
- Reduce the intensity - take breaks whenever needed.
Feeling Numb or Detached
- Be patient - emotional processing takes time, and numbness is a natural defense.
- Try gentle movement - stretch, wiggle your fingers, or stand up briefly.
- Use sensory grounding - hold something textured, a warm drink, or notice your surroundings.
Sudden Waves of Sadness or Grief
- Let the feelings flow - it’s okay to cry or have an emotional release.
- Remind yourself this is part of healing - emotions surfacing means your mind is working.
- Pause if needed - take a moment to breathe before continuing.
Unexpected Anger or Irritation
- Acknowledge the feeling - anger is a valid response to past experiences.
- Journal or speak it out loud - write down or say what’s coming up.
- Take a break to move - physical activity can help release frustration.
Feeling ‘Stuck’ or Confused
- Try a different focus - switch to another memory or part of the experience.
- Use curiosity - ask yourself, “What does this reaction remind me of?”
- Reground yourself - take a moment to come back to the present before continuing.
Use the ‘Safe Pause’ Feature
- Tap the ‘Safe Pause’ button in the app - it’s always visible during your session.
- Look for the red hand icon in the top right corner of the screen.
- This will guide you back to your Safe Place to help you feel calm and grounded.
- Afterwards, choose to continue or exit and try again another time.
- It’s perfectly okay to use this as often as you need - it’s there to support you.
Common Physical Reactions and How to Manage Them
Tension or Tightness in the Body- Practice progressive relaxation - focus on releasing tension in different muscle groups.
- Shake it out - stand and gently shake your arms and legs to let go of tension.
Dizziness or Lightheadedness
- Slow down the process - reduce the speed of eye movements.
- Get comfortable - sit or lie down and focus on deep, steady breathing.
Feeling Hot or Cold
- Adjust your environment - add or remove layers to stay comfortable.
- Use grounding - hold a warm drink or something cool to help regulate.
What to Do After a Session if You’re Feeling Unsettled
- Engage in self-care - try gentle movement, a warm bath, or calming music.
- Journal or reflect - write down any thoughts or feelings that came up.
- Give yourself time - emotions can continue to process for hours or days.
- Use grounding techniques - return to the present through sensory awareness.