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Tips for staying focused during a session
Avoiding distractions and self-doubt
Why Focus Matters in EMDR-PEP
- Performance breakthroughs happen when you stay locked in—wandering thoughts can stall your mental reset.
- Your mind might dodge uncomfortable feelings or doubts—that’s natural, but distractions slow progress.
- Focus is a skill like any other; it gets stronger the more you train it.
Common Distractions in EMDR-PEP Sessions
- Racing thoughts about upcoming games, drills, or off-field worries.
- Zoning out or feeling disconnected from the process.
- External noise or interruptions—teammates, phones, or background sounds.
- Avoiding uncomfortable emotions tied to performance setbacks or pressure.
- Physical discomfort—restlessness or tension that pulls your attention.
Tips to Stay Focused During Your Session
Set a Clear Intention- Define your mental goal—what performance mindset or block are you targeting today?
- Use a simple grounding phrase like “I am focused, I am ready.”
- Write it down so you can return to it if your mind drifts.
Create Your Optimal Environment
- Eliminate interruptions—silence your phone, close the door, and let others know you’re training your mind.
- Pick a quiet, distraction-free space to help your focus.
- Use soft or natural lighting to keep your mind calm but alert.
Engage Your Body
- Sit upright but relaxed—alert enough to stay present without tension.
- Try subtle movements like gentle tapping or shifting to keep your nervous system engaged.
- Hold a tactile object—a stress ball or smooth stone can help ground your attention.
Manage a Wandering Mind
- When your thoughts drift, calmly guide them back to your focus point—no judgment needed.
- Use your breath as a reset tool—slow inhales and exhales to bring your focus back.
- Repeat grounding phrases like “I am present,” or “I’m in control.”
Stay Connected to Your Performance Target
- Visualize the moment—what do you see, hear, and feel related to your goal or block?
- Notice physical sensations—tension, energy, or calm—and follow them without forcing.
- If the memory fades, pause, breathe, and let it resurface naturally.
Adapt Your Stimulation
- Switch between following lights or audio cues to find what keeps you most engaged.
- Experiment with eyes open or closed to maintain focus.
If Focus Keeps Slipping
- Take a quick break—stretch or hydrate to reset your mind and body.
- Adjust your environment if distractions persist.
- Recognize when avoidance shows up—it’s okay to pace yourself and return when ready.
- Use grounding techniques like deep breaths or sensory focus to reconnect.
Building Focus Like Training a Muscle
- Practice brief moments of mindfulness outside sessions to sharpen present-moment awareness.
- Clear your mental space before sessions—journaling or listing tasks can help.
- Be patient—just like physical skills, mental focus improves with consistent practice.